Sunday, August 28, 2011

An Elmo party

Hubby and I hosted our baby boy's second birthday party on Saturday.  It was Elmo-themed.  If I had waited two more weeks to plan the affair I would've had to change the theme to Nemo.  Kids' opinions change in the blink of an eye, I am discovering.

The bright red Elmo invitations went out to family and friends.  We are so grateful for all of our loved ones who could attend (even despite the winds and the rain from Hurricane Irene).  We missed everyone who couldn't be there!


A recent trip to IKEA in Charlotte resulted in this $20 find - a pop-up circus tent that provided hours of entertainment for all of Caleb's friends.


Elmo favor bags lined the kitchen table.  The little dancing Elmos adorning the bright yellow bags were created by a very creative friend of mine, Pam.  Thank you Pam.  Without Pam, the party would have had no decorations because I lack any talent in that area.


The Elmo cupcakes were made by my go-to baker, Jenna (cupcakes by Jenna-Marie).  These were beauties (and delicious).


The Elmo banner was the first thing Caleb saw when he awoke on his birthday party morning. He loved it!  Now his favorite activity is trying to reach up and touch the Elmo banner.

 

Yummy Elmo cupcakes.  Time to sing happy birthday.


Caleb completely forgot how to blow out the candles. I'm fairly certain that hubby stole his birthday candle thunder.  But otherwise the guests would have been waiting all afternoon.


Eating the cupcake took even more effort.  Caleb is typically suspicious of any food we try to encourage him to eat.  He believes we are tricking him into eating something nutritious.  It was no different with the cupcakes and took a lot of convincing to take that first bite.


But once the bite was in the mouth, he devoured the entire cupcake with haste.

 

 Then we opened presents.  Lots of wonderful, sweet gifts.  Caleb is a lucky boy!

 
 

Friends playing on the sun porch.


Ellie and Madeline becoming friends.  They bonded over a mutual love for frilly pink skirts.


Caleb's artwork with his new birthday paints.  So glad they are washable!


Caleb can never have enough balls to play with.  Balls are the best.


I can't express how thankful we are to have such great friends.  Hubby, Caleb and I feel so loved.

Thursday, August 25, 2011

City paving

About two months ago, the City of Durham posted signs in the yards all along our street that read: "Notice: Street paving will occur on the dates of August 9 through August 23.  Please remove vehicles from the street during this time."

Hubby, myself, and all the other neighbors waited anxiously for August 9th to arrive to see the road work in action.  Our street was in pretty poor condition, but mostly due to teenagers writing vulgarities along its surface.

Finally August 9th arrived and the city workers punched the time clock at about 1:30 pm to begin the road work.  They were gone before I got home that evening at 5:15 pm.  Pretty short day's work, huh?  I can't technically explain the work they did, but it appeared as if they raked along the perimeter of the street and left vertical grooves in the pavement.  I was excited that they had begun work on the day they promised, and I couldn't wait to see the finished product in the coming days.

The following day, no further work was done.  Nor the next day.  Nor the next day. 

The deadline to finish the street paving - according to the sign in our yard - was quickly approaching and I didn't sense any movement to get this project finished.  August 23rd came and went, and still no paving was being done.  They had missed their window of opportunity.  I, along with my fellow neighbors, was now allowed to resume parking on my street.

I left for work on Wednesday - the 24th - and returned 8 hours later to see (and smell) a freshly paved street.  So in reality, it took the city at most 11 hours to complete a project for which they allotted 15 days.

Monday, August 22, 2011

Photos of the Day

Caleb and his cousin Madeline got to play together all weekend long.  It was so much fun to witness.  They get together and just unravel with laughter.  I hope that they continue to enjoy each others' company for many more years to come!



Madeline, Melissa and Maddox - thank you for spending your weekend with us.  Love you.

Sunday, August 14, 2011

My Maine Lobstermen Experience

I did something very original while in Maine - spent 6 hours on a boat with two lobstermen, some Dramamine, and my sister Michele.  We had prepared ourselves for an early start to the day (5 AM), cold temperatures, and the rocky motion of the fishing boat. 
Michele and I met the lobsterman (Clive) and his sternman (Cage) on a dark, quiet dock in Boothbay Harbor shortly after 5 in the morning.  We had our cameras and tripods in hand and were ready for some great photography.  I was also ready for a nap, but that wasn't happening anytime soon.


The lobster boats aren't very big - just big enough for two men comfortably.  Michele and I squeezed on with all of our equipment.  FYI - there is a bathroom onboard, hidden beneath some steps.  You have to pump your own toilet water and wash your hands with hand sanitizer.  Yummy.  Cage was very warm and friendly, a true Southern boy from Georgia.  He shook our hands upon introduction and then announced that he was headed to the tiny toilet because - as he put it - he shouldn't have eaten three helpings of his grandmother's macaroni and cheese since he is lactose intolerant.  Double yum.


Soon after leaving the dock, Cage began baiting the lobster traps using none other than dead fish.  The smell was oh-so-fantastic.  Did I mention this was a small boat?  So small that at times, my thigh would brush against the slimy bin of dead fish. 


Cage was a hardworking fellow.  Very efficient and fluid when working with the bait and the lines that held the traps together.  He would stack them up on the back of the boat and allow them to be pulled into the cold waters by the rope. 



Each line is connected to a buoy, and holds about 5 traps.  By law, lobstermen in Maine can have no more than 600 traps out at sea at a given time.  
 

They will pull in and re-release anywhere from 150 to 300 traps per working day.  And they get to work early - at 5 am - and return around 1 pm for lunch.  Then they go back out for round two in the afternoon.  It's a full day of pretty grimy work.  I can't imagine ever getting the fish smell out of my hands.


Clive, the lobsterman who owned the boat, has been doing this for decades.  Before working as a lobsterman he was a teacher.


Throughout our six-hour journey, Clive drove us past a few pretty neat sights, including lighthouses, harbor seals, and this old US life saving station.


There's Michele.  Eyes and camera focused on the prize.


There's me (photo courtesy Michele).  Cold, shivering, helplessly trying to not fall off the rocking boat.


This small house was located on an island near the lifesaving station.  Cage told us that local fishermen used to throw parties out on the island after a day at work.  Can you imagine anything more remote?


Another view of the lifesaving station.


This picture gives a slightly better feel for the size of the boat and the lack of walking room.  The gray metal box in the middle of the boat is where the fresh lobsters are kept.  Those slots lead down to a tank of water that keeps them alive.


Clive was in charge of steering the boat, navigating our route, and pulling the traps out of the water.  He would then open the cages and pull out the beautiful little lobsters, if he was lucky enough to have caught any.  On average, be probably got one or two lobsters per every five cages.  But he wore his emotions clearly on his face.  You could tell when he was devastated that no "worthy" lobsters had been trapped by a cage, and he couldn't help but grin ear to ear when his trap was full of beautiful lobsters.


Clive would pull them out of the cages, look at the quality of their shell, check their status (a female with a notched tail or with visible eggs is illegal to keep), and measure for size.  "Worthy" lobster bodies measure between 3.25" and 5".  This measurement doesn't include most of the tail.


Then Cage would clamp the claws shut with bands.  Even this part was a science, depending on the density of the lobster shell and size of the claw.  Different sized bands are needed for soft shell or hard shell lobsters.


A sweet little lobster awaiting his fate.  It's possible I ate him for dinner that very evening.  Right after Jed yanked his head off in the kitchen sink.  Sorry little lobster.  You were delicious.


A lobster about to go into the tank.


And in he goes.


The color of the buoys has great significance.  Clive's buoys are green and white, as shown below.  Every lobsterman has a specific buoy which must be registered.  That's the only way they can locate their traps. 


I have a new respect for knots - an art it seems is only taught to boy scouts, fisherman, and the military.  But these knots are responsible for holding together 5 traps and surviving the climate of the cold Atlantic ocean.  They are responsible for the livelihood of many a lobsterman.


Sweet little lobster.  Interesting fact...lobsters can be three different colors: red, brown and blue.  Most of the lobsters we saw were brown and red (though hubby and I saw a blue one at the Maine aquarium).


A starfish hitchhiking a ride on the side of Clive's boat.   He was the more attractive of creatures I saw clinging to the boat.


Overall, Michele and I had a fantastic and enlightened time on the boat.  I learned a lot about the reality of a job that is based around hard, physical labor.  I learned a lot about a profession that I thought would be lucrative.  These guys barely scrape by.  That being said, they surely must have a passion for the job.  And is there any better reason?

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

An Elizabethan collar for canine royalty

About three weeks ago, Paxton the dog took his own vacation at the doggy hotel while hubby and I were out of town.  When we picked him up from the doggy hotel upon our return, hubby noticed a small, brown spot on Paxton's neck.  It was so small it seemed insignificant at the time.
Well, over the course of three weeks it has grown from an insignificant spot to a raw patch, then it healed, and finally it turned red and raw again.  Yesterday we decided it was time to visit the vet.
Paxton's neck was carefully cleaned, shaved, and examined and a diagnosis was made.  Just a "hot spot," said the vet.  What starts as a small cut turns into a large sore and eventually becomes infected.  Yuck.
So now, poor Paxton the dog has to take antibiotics twice daily, have a topical ointment applied twice daily, and wear this what must be very uncomfortable Elizabethan dog collar.  He is not a happy dog right now. 

 

Do you blame him?  I hate turtleneck sweaters.  I can hardly imagine this thing around my neck.  Here's to hoping for a quick recovery!

Monday, August 8, 2011

Photos of the Day

Caleb just had the best three weeks!  Grammie (Debbie) came all the way from Orlando to stay with us through the end of summer.  Caleb got to skip his usual daycare routine and hang with Grammie, who got really creative while finding new games to play around the house.  The extreme temperatures kept us indoors quite a bit.
What used to be a puzzle floor mat became foam hats for a hat party.

 

Thank you Grammie for making this sweet boy so very happy.

Friday, August 5, 2011

Coastal Maine Botanical Gardens

As part of our July trip to Maine, hubby, Caleb and I visited the Coastal Maine Botanical Gardens. We had heard excellent reviews of the gardens, and locally we love trekking through the Sarah P. Duke Gardens. We were prepared for a treat.

The weather was nice on the day of our visit - hot for Maine around 80 degrees. The wonderful thing about the Coastal Maine Botanical Gardens is that it includes a few hikes in addition to typical botanical garden areas. Our self-guided tour of the grounds included only a few shortcuts and lasted about 2.5 hours. 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 Maine blueberries - I was dying to find a blue one to pick!

 
 
 A pouting toddler hidden behind a tree.  Near the end of our adventure, Caleb went through a brief spell of not wanting to be carried and not wanting to walk.  I love when that happens while hiking.

 
 
Pink dogwood - so pretty!